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Anonymous   in reply to SysBot   on

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Hello there. I am currently caring for my little sister (she's 2 years younger) who a year ago was diagnosed with germ cell cancer when a tumor in her brain was discovered and it has since spread to her liver, lungs, and spleen.. she has 4 children under 8 years old and I am living with her to help her with things she may not have the strength or energy to do on her own, especially with her boys. I recently was laid off from my warehouse job and am desperate need of some financial assistance. I believe in helping others once you have been helped so I vow to return the help once I am financially able to in the future. Thanks so much for your time in reading this. God bless

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cyndelschafer  

Help to get back on feet

I am a twenty four year old mother of three going through a divorce from an abusive husband and have things going on in the courts that have cost alot my fiance who is wonderful and i both are full time college students and i am three weeks pregnant with his child because of all of the court cost we are behind on our rent by two months soon to be three and though our income normally covers this we need help so that we are no longer behind and are on our feet please email me at cyndelschafer@yahoo.com if you are able to help in any way thankyou so very much cyndel
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scwct2   in reply to SysBot   on

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It's interesting how often people think those in need are all frauds.  How many times have we heard "Oh they're homeless because they want to be" and other moronic comments such as that.

 Earlier I read a post by a physician whose name escapes me, but she suggested that since cyber beggars could have a PayPal account, which requires a credit card or bank account, then we can't be too "destitute!"  I'm like wow she's totally clueless and/or an elitist.  

 I had to quickly remind her and the possible audience that the requirement is to have an account - doesn't mean there is an available credit on the card or money on deposit.  Moreover, she obviously doesn’t understand the human psyche and what humans will do to survive, even if it were to somehow hurt them.

I’m happy for the cyber beggars’ sites because at least you can have your message heard and not feel like a total looser or all alone in your precarious situation.  I think, however, they need to stop charging the exorbitant fees and eliminate all of the scam artists and predators lying in wait.  It’s sad when you go on to a site and there are fewer people asking for help than those peddling their bogus loans.

What do you think about all of this? 

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scwct2  

About scwct2

I ran a small business until one of my major clients defaulted on payment and went into bankruptcy.  I was left being owed $100K.  I exhausted all of my savings trying to stay afloat while I continued seeking new business.  As a result I have fallen behind on my bills and my once good credit has become bad!  I lost a little over $1,800 last week after I applied for a $10,000 loan.  Well, I paid the fees out of desperation and all I got was a bunch of excuses why the loan payment had been delayed and finally a disconnected number today!

 

What I am asking is for those of influence to introduce me to businesses that need HR services.  This will help me restart my business and sustain me.  I am financially destitute to the point where I can no longer do the things that would generate business because I lack money for expenses like business services, marketing, copying, mailing, admission to networking events and workshops, transportation, etc.  It is a struggle to keep my cell phone on, but make it happen so I can still make business connections.  I want to be able to get my business on track and return to being self-sufficient.  As a further consequence of my situation, I cannot afford to eat, pay my housing, utilities and meet other basic needs.  I know I need to see a specialist for a medical condition that is worsening with more frequent pain, but I lost my health insurance.  I wasn’t able to pay my rent last month and now this month as well.  I will be evicted if this is taken care of in the next 2 weeks and then the situation will spiral even further downward.  I am taking on a roommate to help with the expenses, but I still need to come up with 60% of the household expenses.  I have gone so far as to sell personal items.  Just today, a woman stole $54 from me when she shorted me the sale price of my TV – money I intended to use to pay for electric bill.  (Being a trusting person, I didn’t want to insult her by counting the money in front of her and didn’t realize it until after I returned to my apartment and counted the money.)

 

It might seem like I’ve got it together and can find a job, but those attempts have always resulted in me being told I’m over qualified.  I tried “dumbing down” my resume and that didn’t work.  Employers are afraid of hiring someone with my background for fear that when things improve I’ll quit (and they’re damm right –LOL).   

 

Keeping it real, I am not looking for a hand out, just an opportunity to get over this setback.  Financial assistance or a loan would be helpful to get my business back in gear because I can’t qualify for a loan being unemployed and have a declining credit rating.  I have two great business opportunities in NYC, but don’t have means to travel and spend a week there to solidify the deals.  I got involved in a network marketing business to generate some income and was able to do so, but again, have no money to maintain it in terms of attending training, membership, minimal supplies, etc. 

 

Yeah, my story isn’t “sexy” like many of the others you might hear about – but it’s real, not exaggerated and I am desperate.   I’m the typical middle class person impacted by the economy – made too much for public assistance and not enough to be independent!  I actually have the potential to make it but only with your assistance now.  I’m a motivated, ambitious, responsible and outgoing person so one is likely to think “He’ll get over this.’  But after 9 months it is only getting worse!  I’m trying to keep my sense of humor and happy go-lucky persona in tack while being optimistic.  What am I asking of you?  If you or someone you know can make a connection for me to some business with a company that would be sustain me. Maybe you can get me to NYC for these business meetings or offer financial assistance to help me get by.  Heck, if you want to take me out to dinner or networking event I’d welcome that.    I can make business connections because I love what I do, good it and obviously have a lot of self-confidence.  But having some money can allow me to get back to doing the things to generate business, allow me to eat, pay for my housing and meet some immediate needs.  But understand this, I don’t want to have to continuously rely on handouts and be dependent upon others.  My goal is clear – to return to self-sufficiency and I am asking you to help me do so.

 

Thanks in advance for your support and compassion.

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bathsheba  

About bathsheba

I am a single parent who has been laid off since November of this year. I was an independent contractor and therefore I am not eligible for unemployement benefits. I have been seeking active employement but have not found anything. I have not been able to make last months mortgage payment and this month may be outstanding as well. I take care of a child and an elderly parent and we are on food assistance and I am running out of money and I am scared and very anxious. I cannot eat or sleep and I have never asked anyone for anything in my entire life and this breaks my heart. I basically need what ever donations that someone is willing to make and the understanding that my goal is to pay back each and everyone to the best of my ability as I am able. I want to thank everyone who has read this post from my heart.

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randalb3  

About randalb3

Before I explain my partial reason for asking for the kindness of a
true hero or angel I have too say their are a lot of people who think
that scamming and asking us for money,etc-will do what? Well all I can
say is that I have not received anything but scams and then some so if
their is a hero or angel let me know and can only describe a very
minute part of my circumstance at hand and thank you who have taken
the time too read my message
I found this hard too begin mainly because I never dreamed of asking
for a wish---- through the internet let alone explain my situation. I
am here too ask for a wish for help because of loss of family of
financial and health problems. The main reason is that me and my
family of 5 have separated due too job loss --also have been victim of
bank fraud by a donation of check that I was too forward 90%
onwards--the sum of $3,100--I have just been informed that I owe
this---on a personal reason -owing the government-$ 2,100. Also I
presently have became very sick-with blocked arteries & Heart
problem-and have too pay for all prescription that I need and need too
pursue testing for my health.As well find affordable housing so my
family and I can live back together-the
estimate-$8, 000-(paypal) --(acount) --(randalb3@yahoo. com)
Thank you for your time. Randal

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Helping Hands  

About Helping Hands1

Happy Holidays’ everyone. Well, it's time to start donating again. Here are the following items (for the next 40 days) that Helping Hands are searching for. Women clothing, sizes 20-22 W. All clothing is needed. Underwear must be still in packages. Men clothing, sizes 3X, pants 48W 32L. Boys clothing, shirts 16-18. Pants 16Husky. Used or new clothing are awesome. We will come to our house to pick up ( St.. Louis city, county, and Jefferson country only, in Missouri) or we can meet locally. Food: all food is needed except, meats, cheeses, dairy, and seafood. Bills:  the following are needed. Please make donations to AmerenUE (acct # 35017-11219) for $ 17.00 to $45.00. Missouri Natural Gas (acct# 014260-29-8) $ 9.00 to $25.00. Please make sure the account # provided is on the check. Rent: If, you would like to make a donation for rent please send check or money order to: Tina Givens @ 25 Rex Aire Apt. C. Arnold, Mo. 63010, and please on the check or money Order put the word RENT, so I can put that towards the rent funds. Household’s items: are needed as well. Bedding of any sizes, furniture, etc... All items must be in good conditions as well. Please no pet items, toys, yard items, washers, dryers, or any other heavy items. Pick up are on Saturdays, and Sundays. Please email:  helpinghand4u2008@yahoo.com to schedule pick up.If you need help with your bills such as rent, electric, and gas please email me and I will see what I can do to help. In January 2009 helping hands will need different items, so please keeping watching our post. By the way... All books are welcome. The items that we are listing must be in good condition. These items are going to homeless people, and other people in need. PLEASE EMAIL ME IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS, AND A RESPONSE WILL BE IN YOUR BOX WITHIN 24 HOURS. THANKS SO MUCH AND GOD BE WITH YOU.   

 

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tt5  

help I need donations please

In need of donations to help pay my bills I am currently umemployed and without any financial assitance.  Please let me know if anyone can help in anyway....

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selfishpeople  

SELFISH PEOPLE WOW:(

wow i was about to write then started reading how selfish people are well i have a daughter and just took custody of my two nieces 2 month old and 2 yrs i am 20 years old and i cant afford daycare to work because i will be working to pay for daycare i graduated high school and went to school to be an administrative assistant i was on maternity leave and as soon as i was going to go back i got a call to plz take custody of these two beutifull girls and couldnt turn them down knowin how texas and foster care is right now (overwhelming) so i took them in and my baby's father started gettin real sick with his kidneys and has been missing alot of work so we havent payed the house note 531.00 wich is due every 1st of the month so since i havent paid last months julys and now its the first i am behind two months i pray too god everythings gonna be ok but its hard well even if no one help me out at all on here feels good just relaxin writting to relieve a lil stress with all three girls asleep taking a nap thx and god bless have a great day

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adele19120

Hi Everyone, Let me tell you about myself.I am 35 yrs old living in phila,who believe in god.I know he is true,I have no where to turn.Last year my family lost two uncle two months part,after  that me and sister an our family lost our home due to a fire.Two day  later my brother passed away.If  anyone can find it in their heart to donate a dollar you will be bless.PLEASE HELP ME?

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